“I’m going to take you for everything you’re worth.” This kind of threat is usually reserved for fictional couples who seek a divorce on the television programs we watch or in the books we read. However, it is common for individuals to worry about whether they will...
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How do you handle conflict in co-parenting?
Raising a child can be rewarding, but also challenging. It can feel like those challenges increase if you are co-parenting with an ex-spouse. Facing those challenges can sometimes leave co-parents dealing with conflict. Perhaps the conflict stems from disagreements...
What about your kid’s relationship with your ex-spouse’s family?
In the last blog post, we discussed how spouses can work to maintain relationships with their ex-spouse’s extended families after divorce. This is often a matter of personal choice for both parties. However, it may not be when it comes to your children. Your...
You’re divorcing – but do you divorce their family too?
When you get married, you often establish relationships with your spouse’s family and vice versa. Your extended family members might take on important roles in your life, from friends to caregivers or even parental figures. Essentially, your family circle expands....
You want to keep the house. So, what should you do?
Buying a house is a major milestone. Many people see it as achieving a goal when they purchase a place to create their dream home. That is why, if you face a divorce, you may not want to let that dream go. There are a few steps you should take as you approach a...
Enforcing the boundaries you built: Part 2
In a previous blog post, we discussed the importance of establishing boundaries in divorce. However, building those boundaries will not mean much if you do not take the steps to enforce them during the process of your divorce as well as after you finalize it. It can...
Setting boundaries is a key step in divorce: Part 1
Establishing healthy boundaries is necessary to live a healthy life. However, setting boundaries is not always easy. It can especially be a challenge when moving forward with a divorce. Where do you start? As Verywell Health states, setting boundaries is like...
Lack: One of the most common reasons for divorce
While every relationship is different, several studies find that the reasons couples decide to divorce are often quite similar. The most common reason may change depending on the study, but one thing remains true across the board: the lack of a key relationship...
How do you know if it is a high-conflict divorce?
It is only natural for a divorce to involve some level of conflict. After all, it is an emotionally charged situation that can change your life, to say the least. Even spouses who agree to divorce in the first place may deal with conflict. However, how do you know if...
How do parents form a united front?
A common tip to hear when it comes to telling your child about your decision to divorce is to create a “united front” with your ex-spouse, informing them together. It is also helpful to maintain this united front even after the divorce is final when it comes to...