A child custody dispute can quickly get heated. You may not be on good terms with your child’s other parent, but you both want what is best for your child. Even so, it can be difficult to give up time with your child and reach an agreement to share parenting time.
If you cannot agree on a child custody arrangement, here is what you should know.
Mediation comes first
North Carolina generally requires parents facing a child custody dispute to go through mediation first. This is because family courts would prefer that parents negotiate an agreement that works best for them and for their child. You know your family best, and can craft an arrangement that meets your family’s unique needs.
You and your child’s other parent will work with a mediator, a neutral third party, to determine the terms and details of your child custody arrangement and parenting agreement.
And if you cannot reach a resolution?
Ideally, you and your child’s other parent will be able to reach a custody agreement in the mediation process. However, if that is not a possibility, then the case could go to North Carolina family court. The prospect of this can make you feel even more stressed, but it will help to:
- Work closely with your attorney: It is your attorney’s job to guide you through the legal process of your divorce. Going to court will mean presenting your case, which could include obtaining evidence and even witness testimonies. Your attorney builds your case. They can help you prepare your case, and also yourself, for court.
- Focus on your child’s best interests: There are various factors to consider that make up your child’s best interests, from the relationship they have with you and their other parent, to where you live. These are critical – and deciding – factors in child custody cases. They are what the court will prioritize, so you must prioritize them as well.
- Stay calm: It is easier said than done, and it will take practice. However, making sure to keep your emotions in check, both in and out of court, will be important.
Preparing for either mediation or court will require a lot of time, energy and attention to detail. With the support of an experienced legal advocate, you can navigate this dispute and protect your children.