As we welcome November, we also welcome the busy holiday season. This time causes many newly-divorced parents to wonder how they should approach the holidays after their divorce.
During and after the divorce process, parents will likely not live together. It may take some time for divorced parents to grow accustomed to living on their own and in their own space again.
When parents decide to get a divorce, their first concerns usually revolve around their children. They wonder what the custody arrangement will be and how much one-on-one parenting time they will have with their children after the divorce.
In North Carolina, family courts generally prefer divorcing parents to establish a custody agreement for themselves, outside of court. This allows parents to make their decision based on what is best for their family. After all, they understand their family's needs better than any family court could.
There are several details and factors that go into creating a child custody agreement during a divorce, from the child's best interests to each parents' caregiving responsibilities.
When divorcing parents take the time to work together and develop a realistic custody agreement or parenting plan that meets their family's needs, it can make navigating the post-divorce family life much easier.
It is common for parents to grow increasingly competitive with each other after their divorce. A divorce can be emotionally stressful for the whole family, and it is natural for parents to feel like they must make it up to their children somehow.
The legal process of a divorce is to help spouses end their relationship as smoothly as possible. However, the last thing that either spouse wants is for their relationship with their children to dissipate as well. Divorce is difficult for both parents and children and it can cause strain in a family's relationships.
The "traditional" American family doesn't look quite the same as it used to. As just one example, consider the fact that in many households, grandparents are taking on the role of primary caregiver to their grandchildren (rather than an being an extra set of eyes or frequent babysitter).
Below are some factors that may be considered when evaluating what custody arrangement is in the best interest of the child: